Need popup toolbar icons at 16 with parent at 24

I am trying to create a primary toolbar that the user can change their icons from small to large.  This works great.  However, I have a popup toolbar on the primary bar that shows up too big when the icons are set to large (24).  So I am trying to keep the parent toolbar at large (24) and the baby popup toolbar at (16), but nothing I do changes the popup bar.

I have tried SetIconSize on the commandbar of the popup both at startup and in the InitCommandsPopup, but it doesn't work:


This is how I am initializing the bar to begin with:

    CommandBars.Options.SetIconSize False, 16, 16
    CommandBars.Options.SetIconSize True, 24, 24
    CommandBars.Options.SetPopupIconSize 16, 16
    CommandBars.Options.LargeIcons = True


then when I create the toolbar through commands in the code, I am specifically setting the icon size for the popup:

    PopBtn.CommandBar.SetIconSize 16, 16

Then I set it again in the InitCommandsPopup event:
    
    CommandBar.SetIconSize 16, 16

I feel like I must be missing something obvious ??


ActiveX 13.0.0

It does work to set the iconsize without the largeicons option :)

I am not sure which way I will handle it though. We are saving the state of the toolbars. Without the largeicons option in the xml, the setting is not remembered when it is reloaded.

Activex 13.0.0