why my status bar not in office2003 style

There is no 2003 style really, just Office XP or normal.  Unfortunately the CXTStatusBar prevents the Windows XP shaded status bar, so what I used was:

class CXTStatusBarEx : public CXTStatusBar
{
    DECLARE_DYNAMIC(CXTStatusBarEx)
    afx_msg void OnPaint() { CStatusBar::OnPaint(); }
    afx_msg BOOL OnEraseBkgnd(CDC* pDC) { return CStatusBar::OnEraseBkgnd(pDC); }
    DECLARE_MESSAGE_MAP()
};
IMPLEMENT_DYNAMIC(CXTStatusBarEx, CXTStatusBar)
BEGIN_MESSAGE_MAP(CXTStatusBarEx, CXTStatusBar)
    ON_WM_PAINT()
    ON_WM_ERASEBKGND()
END_MESSAGE_MAP()

I suppose a xtAfxData.bXPMode = TRUE; might help someplace if thats what you mean though.

I think you need to re-read mypost, I wrote that little class CXTStatusBarEx and thats what I use, basically to call directly to the CStatusBar paint routines while still getitng all the other useful functionality of the CXTStatusBar.